Etiquettes of Social Life – Taaziyyat – How to give Condolence/Comfort

13:00 Saad Ibn Ubadah RA visited by PBUH.
16:00 Hazrath Musa Ashari RA: Last moments.

18:00 PBUH giving Taaziyat on the death of his grand son RA.( son of Zainab RA).

22:00 Baitul Hamd:

22:30 Haq e Mayyat: Pray 2 rakat Nafl Saleh.

23:00 Death on Iman is unmatched.
25:00 Hazrath Bilal RA.

26:00 PBUH reformed thought process.

30:00 Rule of Comfort.
Generally Do not ask for cause of death of marhoom.
If informed listen but do not ask.

34 Sending cooked food to family members or taking food and serving to family members.
(This is not party time).

36 Related to death of father of Abdullah Ibn Abbas RA.
Abdullah Ibn Abbas RA pain was made lighter when he was told by Taaziyat giver that his father is in a better place.

38 On occasion of death of Hazrath Abdullah durng Jang E Uhud.
Son Hazrat Jaabir RA was very sad on his father’s death.

41 A pious muslim is worried about sin rather than about his death. Death is destiny.

43 Look at good deeds of people who passed away.

45 Related to Mayyat. Dua E Maghfirat and Isal E Sawaab.
Defination of Isal-E-Sawaab: Action is done by someone else but reward is for Marhoom.
e.g. build masjid, build well.

Importance of Etiquettes – Why, What and How of Etiquettes

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Handsomeness of a person is because of Adab/Etiquette not because of beautiful clothes.

Orphaned person is one who lacks Etiquette.

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A person who devalues Adab/Etiquettes slowly will be deprived of Sunnah.
A person deprived of Sunnah will slowly be deprived of Faraiz.

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Abdullah Ibn Mubarak RAH-
Adab/Etiquettes should be like flour and Action/Amal should be like salt in flour.
Meaning Action which are decorated with Adab/Etiquettes are loved by Allah.

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Etiquette of Parents, Masjid, Pen, Education, Teachers.
Deen is name of Etiquettes.

Imam Shafayee RAH said he used to turn page of book slowly so he did not disturb his teacher.

Imam Abu Hanifah RAH used to make dua Magfirat for his parents, teachers every day.

Imam Ahmed Ibn Hambal RAH for 30 years prayed every night for his teacher Imam Shafiyee without fail.

Adab and Akhlaq : The scholars used to travel to attend Majlis of Imam Ahmed Ibn Hambal RAH primarily for learning Adab and Akhlaq.
Adab and Akhlaq can’t be learnt from books.

Only way to teach Adab to children is show them by example.

Etiquettes during illness – 03/01

Islamic Perspective of Corona Virus.
The actions and believes of Umar ibn Al Khattab (Radiallahu Anhu) , Companions of Prophet ( May Allah swt be pleased with them) and Tabeen( Rahmatullahi Alaihi) when faced with Plague e.g. Plague of Amwas.

Dua’s for protection from Corona Virus and other plague and diseases.