Learn from story of Abu Bakr Siddiq RA

اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْنِى خَيْرًا مِمَّا يَظُنُّونَ وَاغْفِرْ لِى مَا لَا يَعْلَمُونَ وَلَا تُؤَاخِذْنِى بِمَا يَقُولُون

O Allah, make me better than what they think of me, and forgive me for what they do not know about me, and do not take me to account for what they say about me.